Tuesday, August 18, 2009

Heeelllooooo!


Howdy Everyone!

How's that 'Hopey -Changey' thing working out for all of 'ya...

Its been quite awhile since I've been here to 'blog' (stupid word). I don't like the word 'twitter' either...sounds really teenage -boppish so please don't take me there and do NOT expect me to ever engage in such activity! Right after surgery I was encouraged ( invited) to join Facebook-and I think had I not been on drugs I would not have partook(is that a word?), but it seemed 'fun' at the time. The next thing I knew, I had people all over the place asking me to take surveys, write on their walls, etc. :) It's all innocent and such, so I'm not really thinking its all that bad, but you could waste too much time on that site. I would rather just email someone directly or speak w/ them on phone. BUT, it has allowed me to catch up with some people I hadn't had a chance to speak with in a long time.

Its been an eventful/uneventful summer. Mainly pretty reflective.... Spent most of my days puttering around and working on regaining strength and working on the house. Jimmy and I went to Eureka Springs and I got to try out my 'driving -longer -distances' part of my brain, and the ever loving, 'driving -on -mountain -roads -with- switchback' part of my brain, both of which worked fine! (BIG YEA!) It was soooooo nice to escape from Memphis and get out in nature. Need to do it more often. We are thinking of going to Sedona in the fall, and maybe Wyoming at Christmas. I hope so. I just hope my 'flying- in- plane ' part of my brain is up to it!

Apparently that's why they made seats 1A , xanax and Amaretto Di Sarona for....;)

Nick went to Florida to visit with dad for a couple of months, and is back now and ready to get back to college. He will be moving out here soon. I'm so old....and this subject is what caused at least half of my reflectivity this summer. Nick and the following:


A very dear friend of ours passed away on August 7th- Gary Floyd. He and his guys have meant so much to not only the entire Felsenthal clan, but on a different level, so much to me. He has made our house a home and brought me into a circle of friends at Heartsong Church who have been here for us over the past couple of years in ways that I wish everyone could have a chance to witness and encounter. Gary did that for us....

Gary had a aneurysm burst while he was by himself at home about a week after my surgery. It was a miracle he survived alone, but that he made it through surgery was just another...His wife Ann has been by his side for 3.5 months. He was making progress after 3-4 weeks at Baptist Hospital here in Memphis, enough so that he could be taken to The Shepard Center in Atlanta for rehab http://www.shepherd.org/. He was doing well, had a couple infections, got over them, had a shunt put in, was doing better, and then for some reason started struggling w/ pressure issues and then pneumonia. He passed away and into Heaven at 11:45PM August 7th. Our hearts have been heavy, as we miss him and hurt for his wife Ann...but we also are thankful he is where he is now and no longer in pain and not knowing the boundaries of the human body. God Bless you Gary-We Love You.

Healing is continuing for me and my noggin. I was able to get my hair colored to its original color in July finally ( I'm one of those people who has been naturally blessed with golden blonde hair-ha ha), and so it was nice to come out of Juv'e ( the place where I go...highly recommend) and still have my scalp intact and not bleeding from all the chemicals (hmmmm, same chemicals I've been putting on my scalp for how many years....) When ALL of my hair follicles start growing out gray then I will stop doing this insanity.

I still get tired late in the day and sometimes feel like I need to shut my eyes,but for the most part I feel a whole lot better than I did before surgery! The steroids and lack of movement prior to and after surgery did cause me to put about 10 pounds on, so I am in the midst of working on getting that taken care of. Recently started mountain biking again. I love riding, but had to put that aside for many months prior to surgery because of dizziness and sight issues, but have started up again and just love it! I also love Wii- Pretty good at the hula hoops....

Well, I have to go run some errands. Hope to hear from you all sooner than later.

Remember folks, wherever there is a human being, there is an opportunity for kindness.



Love To All!





















4 comments:

Unknown said...

Wow! You had a lot to say there. I was cracking up at the annoyance with words such as twitter...I was just speaking to someone on the phone (the ancient communication device) saying much the same. I used to hate the word google and could barely say it. I just recently got on facebook because someone I admire and listen to for advice said I really need to be there for business purposes. Now I like it and am happy to chat with people there. And it is so funny that I am such an active blogger...whoda thunk it?

You look great. I scrolled down and saw your operation photos. Looks like you are meant to stick around for awhile.

Bless you,
Jane

Paula In Pinetop said...

Hi !

Found you via Jane.

Wyoming. The worst years of my life but such a beautiful, fabulous place.

Glad you made it through.

Wendy said...

Hi Paula!
I know what you mean about a 'state', which is really how I feel about a certain other state.(Florida is my Wyomong.)
Thanks for visiting!

Wendy said...

*Wyoming-Geez